The famous Cleopatra cultivated a persona of divine authority, believing herself to be a living goddess. She masterfully employed theatrical displays and shrewd political maneuvering to enchant potential allies and solidify her image as a ruler of exceptional power. Below, a description of perhaps her most important act of seduction:
According to the story, Caesar was unwilling to receive her. There came into his presence, as he sat in the palace, a group of slaves bearing a long roll of matting, bound carefully and seeming to contain some precious work of art. The slaves made signs that they were bearing a gift to Caesar. The master of Egypt bade them unwrap the gift that he might see it. They did so, and out of the wrapping came Cleopatra—a radiant vision, appealing, irresistible. Next morning, it became known everywhere that Cleopatra had remained in Caesar's quarters through the night and that her enemies were now his enemies. In desperation they rushed upon his legions, casting aside all pretense of amity. There ensued a fierce contest, but the revolt was quenched in blood.
This was a crucial moment in Cleopatra's life. She had sacrificed all that a woman has to give; but she had not done so from any love of pleasure or from wantonness. She was queen of Egypt, and she had redeemed her kingdom and kept it by her sacrifice. One should not condemn her too severely, In a sense, her act was one of heroism like that of Judith in the tent of Holofernes. But beyond all question, it changed her character. It taught her the secret of her own great power. Henceforth she was no longer a mere girl, nor a woman of the ordinary type. Her contact with so great a mind as Caesar's quickened her intellect. Her knowledge that, by the charms of sense, she had mastered even him transformed her into a strange and wonderful creature. She learned to study the weaknesses of men, to play on their emotions, to appeal to every subtle taste and fancy. In her were blended mental power and that illusive, indefinable gift which is called charm.
For Cleopatra was never beautiful. Signor Ferrero seems to think this fact to be a discovery of his own, but it was set down by Plutarch in a very striking passage written less than a century after Cleopatra and Antony died. We may quote here what the Greek historian said of her:
“Her actual beauty was far from being so remarkable that none could be compared with her, nor was it such that it would strike your fancy when you saw her first. Yet the influence of her presence, if you lingered near her, was irresistible. Her attractive personality, joined with the charm of her conversation, and the individual touch that she gave to everything she said or did, were utterly bewitching. It was delightful merely to hear the music of her voice, with which, like an instrument of many strings, she could pass from one language to another.”
This was Cleopatra's dramatic entrance to Caesar's court. Disguised as a gift, she captivated him and gained his favor. This political maneuver saved Egypt from its enemies, but also profoundly transformed Cleopatra as a woman.
Her encounter with Caesar awakened her intellect and heightened her awareness of her own power. She learned to manipulate men through a combination of charm and an understanding of their weaknesses. While not conventionally beautiful, Cleopatra possessed an undeniable magnetism that captivated those around her. Her unique personality, combined with her linguistic abilities and captivating voice, made her an irresistible force.
Do the themes of power, influence, and the complexity of human interactions ever really go out of fashion? Cleopatra's story reflects how personal charisma and strategic decision-making can influence our outcomes, in our personal and professional settings. Cleopatra’s ability to wield power through charm and intellect, despite not conforming to conventional standards of beauty, resonates in a world where personality and soft skills often outweigh superficial attributes. Her calculated sacrifices, along with her mastery of emotional appeal, echo the pressures that women face in our time--we must navigate complex systems of power and authority, where strategic compromises and the leveraging of our talents are often necessary in order to achieve our goals. Cleopatra found herself at the intersection of gender and power, a crosspoint that emerges in any conversation about female ambition.Cleopatra's story has an enduring appeal that speaks to the timeless fascination with that elusive thing that we call “charisma.” Cleopatra’s transformation from a young ruler to a masterful manipulator of power mirrors, in a more theatrical way, the self-development journeys that many women undertake today in their pursuit of success and significance.
Our excerpt comes from Famous Affinities of History, published in 1914.